Trust yourself

Stand By Yourself

Once upon a time there was a person. This person was constantly told that it didn't hurt when they had fallen over, even though their knee was bleeding and they could feel the pain. People also told them that they shouldn't make a fuss when something was really annoying them. People would say things like: "Stop crying, it wasn't so bad", and: "You are not hungry anymore, you've just eaten." But it was bad and they were still hungry. People would also say:" You are oversensitive and you should forgive me", even though they were deeply hurt and could not forgive. 

In the end they did not know if their feelings were right or if everything they were feeling was not true. Maybe it was really not so bad even though they could not sleep for weeks because the concern was so big. They ended up thinking: "I'm a fuss pot, I should not worry about that. I'm not fun because I cannot take a joke. I'm not lovable because I feel betrayed when I should be happy to be in a relationship. I do not deserve to be in a relationship. " 

After many years of hearing all about what they should feel and not feel, they came to the conclusion that they were not very nice, yes, maybe a horrible person and they started to despise themselves. 

Don't be that person. Allow yourself to feel what you feel, make your own decision about what you find funny, want to forgive or how to grieve. It is your right and nobody is entitled to make that decision for you. You are still a good person even if you cannot forgive a betrayal. It is not you who is bad, it is the other person who betrayed you. Stand up for your feelings, stand by yourself and do not let anybody take the decisions and feelings away from you. You have a right to feel what you feel and to do what you see fit.

If you have difficulties with that, contact me on 07813 195468 because Homoeopathy can help you stand by yourself. It can show you the way to become a stronger person. I think it is needless to say that, sadly, applies mostly to women.